The BAMWAM Approach

History of "Become a Man Without a Man Inc." (BAMWAM) Youth Mentoring Program

 

     They (BAMWAM) were founded by Reginald F. Buggs, a 28-year Navy veteran, who is passionate about empowering at-risk youth.  Become a Man Without a Man Inc. (BAMWAM) is a youth mentoring program dedicated to guiding young males through life's challenges and helping them reach their highest potential. The organization operates primarily in the Tidewater, Virginia area, where a committed team of veterans and community professionals volunteer their time and expertise to make a difference in the lives of struggling youth.

 

The Vision Behind BAMWAM:

 

     Reginald F. Buggs, who grew up in a turbulent environment, experienced firsthand the difficulties of navigating adolescence without positive male role models.  Dropping out of high school at the age of 16 and facing many personal and social challenges; Reginald found a way to turn his life around by earning his GED and joining the U.S. Navy.  His time in the Navy shaped his sense of discipline, leadership, and responsibility, and it provided him with the clarity to see the urgent need for programs that could mentor young men facing similar struggles.

After over two decades of serving his country, Reginald was inspired to take his lessons and give back to his community.  He recognized that many young men in the Tidewater area, especially those in underprivileged neighborhoods, lacking the guidance, mentorship, and resources to help them transition into adulthood successfully. Seeing the impact that a strong mentorship program could have on a young man’s development, he founded Become a Man Without a Man Inc., a nonprofit organization focused on breaking the cycle of generational struggles and empowering at-risk youth.

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Reginald’s Journey:

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     From a troubled youth to a Navy veteran and respected community leader, Reginald's journey is the foundation of BAMWAM's mission. His background as a struggling youth found purpose and direction through hard work, perseverance, and mentorship makes him a powerful role model for the young men he seeks to help.

Reginald earned his bachelor’s degree in Sociology with a concentration in Community Involvement and a Master of Business Administration (MBA) in General Management from Regent University, experiences that further fueled his desire to create positive changes.  He saw education as a means of personal advancement and a key to unlocking opportunities for others. His education, military experience, and passion for mentorship became the cornerstone of BAMWAM's approach, which addresses the emotional, social, and educational challenges facing At-risk young males.

     At the heart of BAMWAM’s mission is the belief that every young man deserves the opportunity to succeed, regardless of his background or circumstances. By creating a bridge between youth and community resources, BAMWAM equips participants with the skills to overcome obstacles, make positive life choices, and ultimately become the men they were meant to be.

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The Team

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     Reginald’s vision for BAMWAM is supported by a dedicated team of volunteers—primarily veterans and seasoned community professionals—committed to giving back and guiding the next generation. Many of these volunteers share similar experiences with Reginald and can relate to the challenges of growing up without strong male role models. Their collective expertise spans fields from education and social services to business and leadership, ensuring that the program’s participants receive well-rounded guidance and support.

     These volunteers are integral to the program’s success, contributing countless hours to mentoring, training, and organizing activities. They serve as mentors and positive role models who can demonstrate firsthand the importance of integrity, perseverance, and service to others.

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Building a Legacy:

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     Since its inception, BAMWAM has continued to grow and expand, reaching more young men in the Tidewater area. Reginald and his team remain committed to the long-term success of the organization, continuously adapting the program to meet the evolving needs of the community. Through partnerships with local schools, businesses, and other nonprofits; BAMWAM is building a legacy of change, one young man at a time.

     As Become a Man Without a Man Inc. looks to the future; Reginald and his team are focused on creating sustainable programs that will continue to impact young lives for generations to come. Their goal is to help young men navigate the complex journey of growing up, ensuring that they are equipped with the tools to become successful, responsible, and well-rounded individuals. In doing so, they are shaping a brighter future for the youth they serve and the communities they call home.

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     Become a Man Without a Man Inc., is a testament to the transformative power of mentorship, education, and community involvement. With Reginald at the helm, the program continues to make a lasting impact on at-risk youth in the Tidewater area; offering a path to manhood that emphasizes respect, responsibility, and resilience. As the program grows, so does its ability to uplift young men, helping them to thrive and succeed as they embark on their journey to adulthood—one that is guided by the lessons of the past and the possibilities of the future.